by Renae Phillips
Birth Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All!
Neither Are You.
You deserve a birth experience where you feel seen, heard, and truly yours — not just “whatever the doctor recommends.” I’m Renae — midwife, mother of eight,
and creator of
The 5 Birth Languages Framework. I help women like you discover your unique birth language, so you can advocate for what you want, communicate with clarity, and build a birth experience you’re proud to call your own.
Let's make sure your birth story is one you love sharing for years to come.
"The book I never knew I needed until it became
the blueprint to my birth journey"
- Hannah. M
Discover Your Unique
Birth Language
And Create the Empowering Birth Experience You Deserve
Discover the one birth guide that speaks directly to your deepest desires, needs, and birth preferences—because no two women are the same, and neither are their birth journeys.
If you’ve ever wondered,
"Can I really have a birth that feels true to me?" — you’re in the right place
Ready to create a birth experience that feels uniquely yours?
FREE WEBINAR
What Birthing
Women
Want
You shouldn’t have to figure out what matters after the birth is over.
If you want to ensure that your next birth aligns with your deepest desires, needs, and birth language, then this free "What Birthing Women Want" webinar is for you.
In this webinar, we delve into the real desires, reflections, and lessons learned by women who’ve been through the transformative journey of childbirth. We’ll explore what they would change for their next experience, and what they would advocate for next time. This is where you can learn from their experiences to shape your own.
Curious about what women really want when it comes to childbirth?
Who Is This Webinar For?
- Women expecting their first baby who want to learn from others’ experiences and what would change.
- Anyone who want to avoid feeling lost or overwhelmed.
- Mothers who are considering another baby and want to ensure their next birth experience is more aligned with their true desires and needs.
- Anyone who feels unsure about how to communicate with their birth team or advocate for their birth preferences.
- Anxious about the unpredictability of childbirth
"this is an absolute must!"
"Attending the What Birthing Women Want webinar was a revelation. Hearing real stories and insights from women about their birth experiences – what they’d change, and how they’d approach things differently – was invaluable. I learned so much about what truly matters in planning a birth and how past experiences shape what women want for their next one. I left feeling informed, validated, and ready to advocate for a birth plan that really reflects my values and needs. For anyone wanting to feel more prepared and confident in their next birth, this is an absolute must!"
~ Emily F
A 3-eBook resource: FOR YOUR PREGNANCY JOURNEY
Early Pregnancy Bundle
Feel prepared, supported, and confident — right from the start.
Inside this bundle, you’ll find three essential eBooks covering everything from your pregnancy roadmap, morning sickness relief, and emotional preparation for parenthood — so you’re never left guessing what’s next.
✔️ Perfect for women navigating early pregnancy who want real tools (not just vague advice).
✔️ Includes checklists, meal plans, and deep-dive guides you can actually use.
Pregnancy Roadmap
Digital eBook
Inside, you’ll find everything from a detailed breakdown of maternity care options (complete with pros and cons) to personalized checklists for your first doctor's appointment, family health history tracking, and trimester-by-trimester checklists. Plus, you’ll get a full pregnancy schedule outlining what to expect at every appointment and milestone.
Embracing Parenthood
Digital eBook
Through meaningful conversations, this workbook guide prompts couples to explore essential topics such as personal values and motivations, career goals, stress management, emotional readiness, and communication strategies.
It dives deep into parenting styles, nurturing your relationship, and defining parenting roles.
Morning Sickness Guide
Digital eBook
This comprehensive guide covers understanding what morning sickness is to safe medication options. You’ll also get a 7-day nutritional meal plan with flexible variations, delicious smoothie and breakfast cookie recipes to help keep nausea at bay.
Plus, dive into 18 expert-backed tips for surviving morning sickness and finding relief.
NICE TO MEET YOU, I'm Renae
As a Midwife and mother of 8 children, this book is based on years of personal experience, midwifery expertise, evidence based, and countless conversations with women like you who just like you who want more than just “a healthy baby.”
I’ve lived it, I’ve studied it, and now, I’m here I’m here to walk it with you.
Inside the 5 Birth Languages eBook, you’ll discover:
✔️ How to pinpoint what matters most to you
✔️ How to communicate your needs clearly to your healthcare team
✔️ How to build a birth experience that feels strong, personal, and empowering — no matter what twists and turns your journey might take.
Birth isn’t just something that happens to you.
It’s yours to shape.
And when you know your unique Birth Language, you’ll have the clarity, confidence, and tools to create a birth plan that actually reflects your deepest values and needs.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
I’m here to help you create a story you’ll be proud to tell.
MY STORY
How It All Began
My path wasn’t always smooth. Through two sets of twins, several high-risk pregnancies, and a midwifery career, I’ve experienced the highs and lows of childbirth. Some births left me feeling empowered, while others left me questioning everything. I knew there had to be a better way to approach birth, one that honored each woman’s unique needs and desires. That’s why I created:
My desire to journey into birth work began at 14 when I witnessed the birth of my brother—a moment that lit the spark in me. Since then, I’ve been committed to supporting women on their own unique birth journeys. Spoiler alert: it’s been a wild ride, and I’ve loved every minute of it! That moment didn’t just mark the birth of my brother; it planted the seed for my own Birth Language. I knew then that when it was my turn, I would want exactly what my mother had—a calm, serene space where love and comfort were the foundations. I would want familiar faces, laughter to ease the tension, and the assurance that I was cared for with my health care providers.
Research shows these memories can last a lifetime, painting vivid pictures in our minds long after the fact. Which is why it makes so much sense to invest in this special, life-altering event. When it comes to one of the most meaningful experiences of your life, why leave it to chance?
Ready to take the Quiz and find out what your
Birth Language is?
What Women Have to Say About
Birth Languages
“The 5 Birth Languages gave me the confidence
to advocate for myself! Understanding my birth language helped me feel heard and empowered every step of the way.
I felt ready!”
- Ebony. H
“This was everything I didn’t know I needed!
The 5 Birth Languages helped me connect with my birth team and make informed decisions.
So grateful for the peace and clarity it brought.”
- Kat. D
“After birth trauma
with my first,
The 5 Birth Languages transformed my experience with baby #2.
I felt respected and in control—I can’t thank you enough!”
- Tricia. M
“I finally understood what
I wanted from my birth journey, and that
changed everything.
The birth language framework brought me peace and a sense of purpose going into labor.”
- Sarah. K
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